This question I continually ask myself...
My conclusion is….yes
I say yes because many girls cannot handle the fact that you’re not pressuring them to do anything sexually, and that you’re secure enough with yourself to not be jealous and overprotective. As a result of this, some females become afraid and break it off before they get in too deeply, while others cannot understand why you aren’t trying to get into their pants and feel as is you have ulterior motives. So, I guess nice guys suffer because of their previous boyfriend’s mistakes. Another reason I feel as though we finish last is because a girl can look at you and see you as “perfect “ or “Mr. Right” but you may not see her as such, and you decide to break it off because it just isn’t really working out for you. Following this, we feel awful because she may cry or feel unworthy of the next man that comes along…and we will have successfully broken her heart, which was the last thing that we wanted to do.
But, there is hope for us.
We will only finish last for right now. When girls actually wake up and truly decide what they want, and understand what’s out there…wow only time will tell, but when this finally does happen all of the times that we were let go and cast aside will simply be a thing of the past, because some women just have to grow up. If you’re a nice guy in this day and age, well then you’re ahead of your years…and some girls just can’t keep up…right now anyway.
So, don’t fret my friends, our time is coming.
